Author Archives: Suze
It’s NOT about “fixing”
My Dad was a veterinarian, and when I was a little kid, I remember my Dad “fixing” peoples’ pets. I was told it meant that the pet couldn’t be a mommy or a daddy and have puppies or kittens. As a result, when I hear someone looking to “get fixed” I have a private chuckle. […] Continue reading
Completely change your perception
“Assume: to take as being true, for the purpose of argument or action” This is the Concise Oxford Dictionary definition…I’ve been observing the assumptions people make, and find it fascinating how often they are from the “worst case scenario” side of the line. I forgive myself for believing I have to buy into assuming […] Continue reading
Fortunately you can re-pattern IT
You wouldn’t consider having a close friend who called you names and was verbally abusive. You wouldn’t partner with a person who continuously berated you for being “not good enough”, who put you down at every opportunity and spoke nastily about you to others. Yet millions of people do…and you may be one of them. […] Continue reading
Took myself out
How often have you taken yourself out of the game? Fear, perfectionism, feelings of unworthiness will stop us dead in our tracks and steal our dreams, our hopes and our possibilities. How have you taken yourself out in the past… By playing small? By pretending all was well when it wasn’t? By imagining the worst? […] Continue reading
Your Personalized Playlist
Songs are powerful force – the combination of words and music go deep into your subconscious. Research tells us that hearing is the last sense to leave as we die, and those who suffer with Alzheimer’s are often able to “sing along” after the ability to have a conversation is gone. You likely remember the […] Continue reading