It’s a Choice

“It isn’t what you have, or who you are, or where you are, or what you are doing that makes you happy or unhappy. It is what you think about.”

-       Dale Carnegie – 1888-1955, Author and Speaker

 

What you think about is a choice – it may not seem like it, but it is.

You may believe you “can’t help it”, these negative thoughts keep spinning, and you are right – in the past you have been pulled and swayed by the gamut of thoughts swirling around in your mind. You may have been knocked over and taken out of the game by these thoughts – they are powerful, and they may even be true…but they are not supportive, and they can be changed.

 

 

  • I forgive myself for believing it is hard to change what I think about.
  • I give myself permission to consciously and proactively train my subconscious mind to be on the “up-side” of the line.
  • I choose to develop positive thought as a new habit.
  • I am free to change my thoughts – they are mine!
  • I know what it is like to change my mind to happier thoughts – I did when…..
  • I am actively learning to shift my thoughts to the positive.

 

With any story, there are many starting points, and the journey that led to the creation of Belief Re- patterning was a series of experiences and resulting awareness that came together over time. That summer I attended a Bob Proctor Round Table event. Bob is a well-respected, internationally recognized motivational speaker. I felt honored to be in the audience. Bob encouraged us to be “vigilant” with our thoughts “at all times.” It was a great idea, and as I wrote it down, I began to wonder how I could get the same positive results in an easier and more loving way; being vigilant felt hard and punishing. I had become frustrated with suggestions that I just change my thinking. That was the exact part that challenged me, and it seemed to me that books and workshop leaders just glossed over it. I knew it was important to keep my thoughts positive, but how could I do that without feeling like a fake? How could I be vigilant at all times, when my subconscious was in the driver’s seat many more hours than I was able to be aware of my thoughts? Why did it have to take so long?
Bob’s thought-provoking comment triggered a deep investigation. Could I develop a way to train my subconscious mind to keep my thoughts positive? Was it possible to reset my autopilot settings and sustain those positive settings so that the Law of Attraction would always manifest in the direction of what I truly wanted? What if I consciously developed powerful neural pathways that would support my subconscious mind to switch my thoughts? After I started experimenting and sharing, refining and realizing, and compiling and creating, I began writing down and tracking my discoveries. I did not need to be vigilant at all times. I discovered that I could proactively train my subconscious mind to do it for me, and it was happening quickly and easily.
From the Preface, p. xxiv Belief Re-patterning: The Amazing Technique for ‘Flipping the Switch’ to Positive Thoughts.

 I love supporting others in learning to proactively shift their mindset – shall we explore this together?

Namaste,
Suze

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My guiding word for 2015 . . .

My guiding word for 2015 “Influence” continues to impact my thinking, and I ask myself questions like…

Who do I choose to influence me?

What influences impact me in supportive ways?

Where will I place my energy to create the greatest positive influence?

How might I be a better influence?

How have I influenced the organizations and groups I belong to?

What kind of an influence do I want to be today?

Whose influence do I respect, and why?

Do I like the influence I see I’ve been? How would I like to influence in the future?

 

  • I forgive myself for all the times I’ve been influenced in the past by people and ideas that didn’t support me.
  • I give myself permission to be aware of what I allow to influence me.
  • I can be swayed to either side of the line – I choose to follow what supports me in becoming a more positive influence!
  • I am free to change my influences to something that works for me.
  • I was positively influenced today by…
  • I am continuously influencing and being influenced, and I am conscious of the impact.

 

A lovely quote crossed my desk early in the new year…

“Every moment in front of another human being is an opportunity to influence someone with my humanity.” - Robin Sharma

When you set your intention, the messages come in wonderful ways!

What opportunity will you take today to create a positive difference?

Namaste,

Suze

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Resolution…Goals…Dreams…Plans

Resolution…Goals…Dreams…Plans

We make ‘em, we break ‘em. Let’s keep them this year!

Subconscious programming runs deep, but it doesn’t have to run you down. When stress levels are high, old habits and ways of being pop up – ever wonder why? NOT because you are lazy or stupid or not committed…the quick answer is you have a subconscious program running, and the good news is you can shift that programming. It doesn’t have to be hard or take a long time. Mindfulness, thoughtfulness and inwardly directed kindness will speed up the process.

BE the feelings of your resolutions, and keep them on the supportive side of the line, and those dreams will become reality.

 

  • I forgive myself for believing the way things have been is the way they have to stay.
  • I give myself permission to live in the energy of my resolutions realized.
  • The more I choose to create that excited energy, the more quickly my resolutions are realized.
  • I am free to create my reality by BE-ing the energy I desire consciously, every day…and watching my dreams materialize!
  • I experienced the feelings of my resolutions when I…
  • I am BE-coming what I desire.

You influence your outcomes with your feelings…BE the energy you desire consciously and the subconscious programs will shift.

This year is going to be different simply because you’ve decided to “Make it So”

Namaste,

Suze

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So many wishes, hopes, and dreams for 2015

So many wishes, hopes, and dreams for 2015!

We cross the threshold of midnight wide-eyed and excited about the possibilities and often, within a few days, all of our excited resolution for change seems to evaporate. Could it be that we are simply putting too much onto the day, that although marks the end of one year and the beginning of the next, is really only a moment in time?

This year let’s try something new! Pick one thing each day that you will do differently. Choose one small task to complete and celebrate it. Give gratitude every day for what already is, and use that energy to propel you toward what it is that you desire.

Big results are the natural outcome from small actions in the direction of our dreams. Let’s all stop overwhelming ourselves by deciding everything’s going to change in the blink of the single second that separates 2014 from 2015. Create each midnight of this year as a moment of change fueled by the acknowledgment of your accomplishments each day.

New Year’s is a touchstone, an opportunity to reflect and then imagine!

Where we will all be this same time next year?

Every day I choose a guiding word – the 365 Re-pattern APP was created to support others in this daily practice. Each year I also choose a guiding word – in 2014 my guiding word was harmony, and today I acknowledge all the harmony I’ve created and experienced moment-by-moment, action-by-action, day-by-day this past year.

My guiding word for 2015 is influence…and my days will be framed with questions such as:

How do I become a more positive influence?

Whose influence do I treasure?

What kind of influence do I choose to be in every interaction?

What influences am I happy with today?

Where might I step up and increase my influence?

Just for fun, I checked the dictionary definition of influence:

1.    Supposed flowing from stars of ethereal fluid affecting character and destiny of man

2.    Action of person or thing on or upon another, perceptible only in its affects; ascendancy, moral power, induction (proving truth of theorum by showing  that if true of any particular case it is true of the next case in a series)

Isn’t it interesting to discover the true meaning of a word? Isn’t it even more interesting to uncover the true meaning of you?

 

  • I forgive myself for believing the way things have been the way they’re going to stay.
  • I give myself permission to create 2015 by developing more ability to be a positive influence day-by-day.
  • I can wait and see what happens or I can be guided – I choose to be guided by my own influence.
  • I am free to deepen my influence by consciously speaking my truth today.
  • I am grateful for the appreciation I receive from others and from myself – that encourages me to continue!
  • When I show up as who I really am I am a positive influence. I deepen my ability to do that this year!

 

How will you be guided this year?

May 2015 be filled with many dreams realized!

Enter the year with peace in your heart, hug the ones you love and let them know why.

Namaste,

Suze

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Gratitude

Gratitude.
For my health.
For my family.
For my friends.
For the earth and it’s gifts.

 

  • I forgive myself for believing I need to pick up other’s stress.
  • I give myself permission to breathe deeply and feel gratitude – regardless of what is happening.
  • It is a choice. I choose to be compassionate and loving to myself.
  • I am free to experience my day with loving compassion.
  • I am grateful for ……
  • I move forward from here with love and compassion in my heart for myself, and others. We are all, everyone of us, doing the best we can.

 

At this special time of year, bring all your compassion to the surface, and then expand it.
It is the best gift you can give yourself.
As we each become lighter, the world becomes brighter.

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