I’ve been divorced twice, and so has he. We both knew what we wanted, but it just never quite came together – until we met and it did! The magic of a new relationship is a wonderful foundation, but how do you build on that and create the emotional connection that will sustain you both? Phil and I will share what we’ve discovered in creating a solid relationship – one conversation, one step, one situation at a time.

• I forgive myself for believing relationships have to be challenging.
• I give myself permission to create more rewarding relationships in my life.
• I choose to dissolve the challenges with commitment to understanding, curiosity for what is really happening, and compassion – for myself and the others in my life!
• I am free to create amazing relationships – beginning with the relationship I have with myself!
• I know what it feels like to connect easily with myself – it happened when I…
• I am creating better relationships with those I care about, including me!

Remembering everyone is always doing the best they can in every situation goes a long way – and providing what you are looking for in another to yourself will keep you solid. You can, and will re-pattern the “way you’ve always been” in relationship – in fact it is the very BEST place to do it!

Namaste,

Suze

“If you can’t fly, you can run, if you can’t run you can walk
If you can’t walk, you can crawl, that’s the beauty of it all
If you can’t crawl, you can roll, keep your eyes upon your goal
You have your place in the flock, if you can’t roll then you can rock”

 The chorus from one of David Roth’s  www.davidrothmusic.com

Songs “If you Can’t Fly”

I sang this song over, and over and over again when I was making the decision in 1999 to leave my secure teaching position and begin to do my Belief Re-patterning work full time.

Everyone of us has a song we sing to ourselves, and you might as well train your subconscious mind to sing something that is supportive! Even now, as I move into another larger way of BE-ing in the world, with new discoveries to make, challenges to navigate, and accomplishments to claim!

• I forgive myself for believing I can’t do what my heart desires.

• I give myself permission to step into my dream, and keep my eyes on my goal.

• I choose to take a step in the direction of my dreams. “If I can’t fly, I’ll run. If I can’t run, I’ll walk. If I can’t walk, I’ll crawl.” I choose to move forward.

• I am free to move toward my goal by… (1 specific thing, 10 minutes or less that you can absolutely do today.)

• I know what it feels like to take a step in the direction of my dreams. I did it when I … (1 specific example of when you’ve done this in the past)

• I am moving in the direction of my dreams – however I can move today: Fly, Run, Walk, Crawl, Roll. I rock!

With gratitude for the power of music in my life, and for songwriters, like David, who put into words and music the human condition in a way that supports, enlightens and empowers.

May the force be with you as you take one step everyday!

Namaste,

Suze

I remember feeling very alone and disconnected.

I remember wondering if I was adopted ‘cause I just didn’t “fit” my family.

I remember worrying if I was weird because I was told repeatedly “Nobody thinks like that.”

I remember thinking I was crazy and everyone was just being nice to me.

That’s where I was as a child, adolescent and young woman.

And I am so grateful I connected, found my place, honoured my uniqueness and valued my contribution. All of those feelings lead me to where I am today, and allowed me to create what I have created and contribute how I can to my community.

Each and everyone of us has a place. There is a song I love written by American Folksinger Bill Staines “All God’s Creature’s Have a Place in the Choir”. Here is a wonderful 2 minute break for you – it’s worth a look and a listen two of my old folkie pals (now on the “other side”, but still bringing joy to the world with their music) Tommy Makem and Liam Clancey:

https://search.yahoo.com/yhs/search?p=all+god%27s+creatures+have+a+place+in+the+choir+lyris&ei=UTF-8&hspart=mozilla&hsimp=yhs-001

• I forgive myself for believing there is something wrong with me because I’m “not like everybody else”.
• I forgive myself for believing I need to compare myself to others, and judge myself.
• I give myself permission to be uniquely who I am.
• I give myself permission to value my contributions.
• I choose to show up as me and bring my unique gifts to my community.
• I am free to be appreciated for the unique individual I am within my community.
• I know what it feels like to be valued and appreciated by others. It happened when I …
• I am so grateful to _______________ (insert a specific person’s name) for valuing and appreciating my ­­­­­­­_________________ (specific contribution of yours)
• I am a valued, contributing member of my community.

Whatever your religious beliefs, the sentiment ALL God’s creatures have a place in the choir holds true. The music we make in community needs EVERYONE’S voice.

Yours included.

Please step up and step in.

Your community needs your contribution.

Only you can add your unique piece.

Namaste,

Suze

I remember feeling very alone and disconnected.

I remember wondering if I was adopted ‘cause I just didn’t “fit” my family.

I remember worrying if I was weird because I was told repeatedly “Nobody thinks like that.”

I remember thinking I was crazy and everyone was just being nice to me.

That’s where I was as a child, adolescent and young woman.

And I am so grateful I connected, found my place, honoured my uniqueness and valued my contribution. All of those feelings lead me to where I am today, and allowed me to create what I have created and contribute how I can to my community.

Each and everyone of us has a place. There is a song I love written by American Folksinger Bill Staines “All God’s Creature’s Have a Place in the Choir”. Here is a wonderful 2 minute break for you – it’s worth a look and a listen two of my old folkie pals (now on the “other side”, but still bringing joy to the world with their music) Tommy Makem and Liam Clancey:

https://search.yahoo.com/yhs/search?p=all+god%27s+creatures+have+a+place+in+the+choir+lyris&ei=UTF-8&hspart=mozilla&hsimp=yhs-001

• I forgive myself for believing there is something wrong with me because I’m “not like everybody else”.
• I forgive myself for believing I need to compare myself to others, and judge myself.
• I give myself permission to be uniquely who I am.
• I give myself permission to value my contributions.
• I choose to show up as me and bring my unique gifts to my community.
• I am free to be appreciated for the unique individual I am within my community.
• I know what it feels like to be valued and appreciated by others. It happened when I …
• I am so grateful to _______________ (insert a specific person’s name) for valuing and appreciating my ­­­­­­­_________________ (specific contribution of yours)
• I am a valued, contributing member of my community.

Whatever your religious beliefs, the sentiment ALL God’s creatures have a place in the choir holds true. The music we make in community needs EVERYONE’S voice.

Yours included.

Please step up and step in.

Your community needs your contribution.

Only you can add your unique piece.

Namaste,

Suze

A local restaurant advertises that good food takes time – and I agree. Attention to detail, care and concern for the ingredients is paramount when preparing a meal.

We often translate this into big projects have to take a lot of time, effort and hard work.

However, as I have been bringing together everything for the launch next weekend of the new Flip YOUR Switch complimentary weekend in Calgary (there are 150 participants!), I’ve discovered that what I need shows up, and at exactly the right moment.

Today’s decisions ripple out and play into the needs of tomorrow, translating them into beautiful completion. I make a request for help, and a friend appears. I need an extra hour and a client calls to reschedule today’s appointment for another time. I ask for a terrific facility, and one materializes.

As long as I remain centered, authentic and on the up-side of the line, those cats that needed herding begin flying in formation in the right direction, and I am reminded:

Good things take time, but great things happen all at once.

• I forgive myself for believing great things have to be hard.
• I give myself permission to make decisions from the “upside” of the line.
• I choose to welcome the magic of being on-purpose.
• I am free to receive greatness into my life with ease.
• I know what it feels like to have great things happen all at once. It happened when I met… It also happened when I discovered …
• I am  in flow and great things are happening – all at once!

The seemingly impossible becomes not only probable – but actual.

And…speaking of GREAT things…

YOU are welcome to join us for the next Flip YOUR Switch weekend in Calgary, January 8 – 10, 2016. It is my gift to you. 

Can you imagine 2.5 days of learning and integrating Belief Re-patterning into your daily way of BE-ing? All you have to do is get here and cover your own accommodation and meals. The course is complimentary. What an incredibly GREAT way to begin the New Year.

Remember: Great things happen all at once! Set the intention and allow the magic to appear!

Namaste,

Suze